• This Bird Has Flown


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    I opened my Twitter account on December 27, 2006. I am Twitter user 307,983. Over the past nearly 16 years, I’ve spent far too much time, energy and attention on Twitter. It has exacerbated my mental health struggles in countless big and small ways. It has absolutely changed the way I write and think by…

  • Wishing a manageable Thanksgiving to those of us …


    Wishing a manageable Thanksgiving to those of us struggling with disordered eating.

    You don’t need to “earn” your meal. You’re not “being bad” if you get another plate. And, what does or doesn’t go on your plate is nobody’s business or concern but your own.

  • I’m sure how good I feel today has …


    I’m sure how good I feel today has nothing to do with doing morning yoga for three straight days. Probably entirely unrelated. Nothing we can observe or learn from here.

  • Equations Unbalanced, Riddles Unsolved


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    Listening to “Pony Express Record” this week, I wondered “where are the rest of the bands that did this?” Admittedly, they’re hard to find, but that led me to creating this playlist: Where post-hardcore, math and feelings meet. A mix of scenes, but admittedly DC-heavy, light on “emo for emo’s sake” if it doesn’t have…

  • Bookmarked Home Invasion by Hugh Rundle. The tools, …


    Bookmarked Home Invasion by Hugh Rundle.

    The tools, protocols and culture of the fediverse were built by trans and queer feminists. The culture and technical systems were deliberately designed on principles of consent, agency, and community safety. It’s hardly surprising that the sorts of people who have been targets for harrassment by fascist trolls for most of their lives built in protections against unwanted attention when they created a new social media toolchain. It is the very tools and settings that provide so much more agency to users that pundits claim make Mastodon “too complicated”.

    “Too complicated” for whom?

  • Did a Democracy this morning. Early voting is …


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    The exterior of the Claymont Community Center this morning. Weather is beautiful and sunny. Many signs for candidates out front.

    Did a Democracy this morning. Early voting is good.

  • Dudes Rock


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    A playlist vaguely inspired by 10 years of Celebration Rock, meant to be played loud while drinking ice-cold cheap domestics and shouting the lyrics back at your speakers. Playlist available on Apple Music and Spotify.

  • Four Of A Perfect Pair


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    Collecting the work of King Crimson’s classic quartet, together and apart: Belew, Bruford, Fripp and Levin. Playlist available on Apple Music and Spotify.

  • Missed My Connection in Heathrow


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    A playlist inspired by traveling for the first time in 2+ years and the attendant disorientation/depression that follows. (no, I did not go to London! it was just a vibe!) Playlist available on Apple Music and Spotify.

  • My first guitar


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    While cleaning a bunch of stuff out of the attic in preparation for our move, I found my first guitar. It was a Harmony classical guitar, almost unfrettable from the day I got it. As you can see, I treated it with great reverence. In addition to the sticker “enhancements,” my dad recreated the bridge…